Haha, it's good to know that I'm in good company, then. I'm just very tired and struggling to help my kid struggle through remote learning, so by the time I actually have time to myself, I usually just go to bed. Adult life, it's so great. But yes, I am all about that backtagging life, so that totally works for me.

The good and bad thing is - I love angst. So I would more than happily put Ben in a position where he wants very much to be with Rey but also doesn't want to put himself in the way of her relationship with Poe. So he'd step away and pine like an idiot because that's just the way he is.

He'll join the fold, it just might take little steps to get him there.