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insertusername ([personal profile] insertusername) wrote in [community profile] toplvl2020-10-10 07:38 pm
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make amends


make amends

Remember that terrible shit you did? Time to make it right. Ish.

Top Level with the start of your apology(ies). Public or private. In person or over txt.


Well That Was Awkward ↦ Maybe you’re nervous. Awe struck. Tongue tied. Just a little socially awkward. Whatever. This is going to be bumpy.
Total Catastrophe ↦ You fucked up so hard with this one there might not be any coming back from it.
Not Again ↦ You know this wasn’t the first time. This is kind of your MO.
Sorry Not Sorry ↦ Maybe you’re prideful. Maybe you really aren’t to blame. Either way, this only debatably qualifies as an apology at all.
Wildcard ↦ You know what you did.


Comment to see where their sorry song goes. Maybe it’s an apology you didn’t know you had coming, maybe it’s long overdue, completely unnecessary or anything else. Whether or not you’re feeling forgiving is up to you.

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[personal profile] wwrench 2020-10-11 05:36 am (UTC)(link)
1. Mistaken identity. I was willing to let it go, but he acted like too much of an asshole.

2. I didn't mean to imply the food wasn't any good. I just had no interest in finding out.

3. Take it as a lesson not to walk into my signing space when he and I are having an argument. It wasn't even a punch, really. If I ever punch you, you'll know it.
ladysilence: (⇋ five)

2.

[personal profile] ladysilence 2020-10-11 08:25 pm (UTC)(link)
Was it the fact that I mentioned moose fat, or are you just generally suspicious of my cooking skills?
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[personal profile] wwrench 2020-10-12 12:31 am (UTC)(link)
I'm from Minnesota.

How about I watch you cook, and we'll see what I think when it's done?
ladysilence: (⇋ four)

[personal profile] ladysilence 2020-10-12 01:35 am (UTC)(link)
I'd say you'll be watching a while, cause I'll need to chill it in the freezer after.

But I don't really need to. I like fresh akutaq, so any chilling'd be mostly for your benefit. And hey, it's not even a sure thing I'll have to share.
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[personal profile] wwrench 2020-10-12 01:43 am (UTC)(link)
My benefit? Seems like you're sure I'm not going to like it. I'm wary, not fussy.

What is akutaq anyway?
ladysilence: (⇋ ten)

[personal profile] ladysilence 2020-10-12 01:55 am (UTC)(link)
More like people who haven't had it before, they just expect it to be cold.

Depends on what you're putting in it. But it's usually some kind of meat and fat, mixed with berries. Maybe some fish and other stuff too.
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[personal profile] wwrench 2020-10-12 09:52 pm (UTC)(link)
So, whatever you've got on hand? Sure, I've eaten like that plenty. Still prefer to watch you prepare it first though.
ladysilence: (⇋ four)

[personal profile] ladysilence 2020-10-12 10:39 pm (UTC)(link)
Yep. Mix it up. That's what akutaq means, matter of fact.

What kind of berries do you like?
buttonsandpasta: (twd winter soldier)

3.

[personal profile] buttonsandpasta 2020-10-12 11:14 am (UTC)(link)
Yeah, it wasn't a punch - more like a bop on the nose. To be honest, I was just upset I dropped the coffee and didn't have the time to get a new one. Not a great way to start the week.

Did you guys at least manage to settle whatever it was that went wrong?
Edited 2020-10-12 15:20 (UTC)
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[personal profile] wwrench 2020-10-12 10:01 pm (UTC)(link)
Was it one of those fancy coffees, or just the instant stuff? Trying to determine how guilty I ought to feel about that.

It'll be settled when he learns to respect me. Hard to say if that lesson's taken yet or not.
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[personal profile] buttonsandpasta 2020-10-13 11:04 pm (UTC)(link)
Neither. Just a regular black coffee from the small shop around the corner. Fair trade is as fancy as my coffee gets.

I'd say if he's willing to listen to you that's a start. Mind if I ask for more context? Does he question your life choices or why do you think that he doesn't respect you?