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insertusername ([personal profile] insertusername) wrote in [community profile] toplvl2020-10-07 07:02 pm
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bad rap

bad reputation joan jett

bad rap

The things we become known for aren’t always what we’d like to be known for. Reputations are hard to run from. Sometimes they’re not even deserved. So here’s your chance to set the record straight. Clear up some misplaced assumptions, debunk any rumours about yourself and defy your stereotypes.

how to play:

Top level with something(s) your character is tired of people assuming about them, blaming them for, or pigeonholing them about, etc. Say it in person or over text.

Comment on any surprising, or not so surprising declarations.

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[personal profile] horticulturalist 2020-10-09 01:34 am (UTC)(link)
Doesn't it get tiresome?

I'm not exactly overwhelmed with things I need to be getting around to. My life slowed down a lot in the 60's.
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[personal profile] wwrench 2020-10-09 01:43 am (UTC)(link)
What part of it? Scrounging for scraps of conversation?

It's not just a matter of how long it takes. A lot of people think it feels inauthentic.
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[personal profile] horticulturalist 2020-10-09 01:47 am (UTC)(link)
No. Arguing.

Don't most people text these days anyway?
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[personal profile] wwrench 2020-10-09 01:49 am (UTC)(link)
Not really. I don't think about it like that. If someone wants to argue with you, then you must be worth their time, right?

You'd think so. Maybe I ought to use more emojis.
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[personal profile] horticulturalist 2020-10-09 02:15 am (UTC)(link)
I guess.
Most people I know who argue are more interested in being right than they are in me.

Eh. That takes too long.
Do you think it's in authentic?
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[personal profile] wwrench 2020-10-09 02:19 am (UTC)(link)
I guess that's probably true. Maybe it's just a lie I tell myself. My partner was the most argumentative person you could ever imagine meeting.

I think it's frustrating. Maybe not inauthentic, but definitely limiting.
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[personal profile] horticulturalist 2020-10-09 02:39 am (UTC)(link)
Probably not true for everyone.
Acting up for someone's attention isn't exactly unheard of.

Well. So is not having a face. But we're all working with what we've got.
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[personal profile] wwrench 2020-10-09 02:54 am (UTC)(link)
I don't think there was ever a concern about lack of attention. I followed around like a lost puppy. I think it was just what we were raised on.

I didn't mean to complain. Sorry.
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[personal profile] horticulturalist 2020-10-09 03:09 am (UTC)(link)
Some people need that amount of validation from someone else.

You weren't. I was just. I don't know. Commiserating?
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[personal profile] wwrench 2020-10-09 03:15 am (UTC)(link)
That's okay. I was happy to give it. Maybe not always, I guess, but in retrospect if I knew that's what was needed, I would've done it as much as I could've.

Oh, right. I appreciate it, you know. Guess I thought maybe you were getting fed up on the chatting.
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[personal profile] horticulturalist 2020-10-09 03:20 pm (UTC)(link)
Heh. It's funny. What works for some people. Doesn't always look functional from the outside.

Oh. No. Nothing like that.