aita?

[insertusername]

am i the asshole?

Life isn’t always black and white. Sometimes it’s hard to tell who’s really at fault, and no one wants to believe they’re the bad guy. Sometimes you need an outside opinion. Or several.

Tell your side of the story and crowdsource an honest answer to the age old question; Am I The Asshole?

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with your character explaining a situation where they might have been the asshole.

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with your hot takes. Anon or IC.

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[fightugly]

That's up to him.

[(Anonymous)]

And you, apparently, since you don't know if you're gonna try and get back together with him or not.

[fightugly]

That, too, is up to him. For the most part.

[(Anonymous)]

How is what you go for up to him??

[fightugly]

If he doesn't want me back, it's all kind of moot, isn't it?

[(Anonymous)]

And you'd still go for it even if you know he's with someone else now?

[fightugly]

He has to tell me that first.

[(Anonymous)]

Wow.

That's so cold and calculated.

I can see why you've got him wrapped around your finger.

[fightugly]

He's wrapped around V's finger.

[(Anonymous)]

At least that's a mutual thing.

[fightugly]

You think Eddie and I wouldn't be?

[(Anonymous)]

No. I don't think so.

I think you were full on badmouthing him until you realized someone else was invested in him too.

[fightugly]

Now that's a bold faced lie. I haven't said one bad thing about Eddie that he didn't actually do.

[(Anonymous)]

Fine. Semantics. The outcome still stands.

[fightugly]

No, it does not.

[(Anonymous)]

Doesn't matter what I say, does it.

[fightugly]

You're saying I didn't care until you stepped in. Which is completely untrue.

[(Anonymous)]

That's not what I said.

The fact is that you know he's with someone so why can't you just stop?

[fightugly]

Why am I supposed to believe you?

[(Anonymous)]

Why wouldn't you?? What, you think no one else can be with him?

[fightugly]

Well, you don't like me so you could just be saying this to ruffle my feathers, so to speak.

[(Anonymous)]

I'm not.

[fightugly]

So you say.

[(Anonymous)]

What do you want me to do, send you a naked pic of Eddie to prove it to you?

[fightugly]

Fine, say you are telling the truth. Why hasn't he told me?